Thanks again guys for the support
I forgot to say that after my wife let me have it when I got off the phone I spoke to my mother-in-law (who is visiting us at the moment). She WAS AWESOME!!!! She was so happy and encouraging, told me how proud she is of me and said everything I needed to hear as well. It really helped me to reclaim the moment.
HaHaHa....Why can't my wife be more like her mother?
(bet no one has said that before)
BTW - my wife didn't feel the need to tell her mum about my porn habit or addiction to MBing......so obviously I'm still the golden boy!!! Pheww - I need my mother-in-law's support right now. I think she would probably understand anyway. She has a better understanding of the real world than my wife.