The question at this point is: Who did it?
Another contributor to the Kidnap Survival thread suggested that I view a documentary. (kidneythis)
http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=422150&page=1http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...8937#Post318937I followed his suggestion and about a third of the way through I saw some frames in which I recognized my abuser when I was 12.
It had to be that kidney had encountered my abuser when he was being mistreated in a New Jersey center. He recognized that I had been abused by the same person and so he offered me the video link in which I visually identified my abuser.
This is the doccumentary:
http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/channel/videos/cia-secret-experiments/This is a screen-capture of him. He's the tall man with the black tie, in the military uniform. He's standing with his arms folded:

Or, in a closeup view:

If this is really him, and I believe it is, then this gives us a lot of information about him.
Puffer