I am reading the book: The Wounded Heart by Dan Allender. Its a Christian perspective on healing from childhood sexual abuse. Anybody read it? I'm kind of struggling with the presumption of sin on the part of the victim, and the need to repent, to be healed and become close to God. I know what my sins are (see my many posts), but it feels too much like blaming the victim. But maybe I'm not reading it right. I'd be interested in hearing what others thought of the book.

I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
Sarah McLachlan