Hey panda, it is true that sometimes some members are very sensitive for gender issues. Survivors are sometimes easily triggered meaning that could be explosive and not easy to talk to. I'm sorry if you already experienced that.
I know that some women were coming to chat and even were attending healing circles but it was needed to reveal gender in the beginning and all brothers were very supportive, I don't see any reason why would be different with you, you felt like man trapped in female body, you were very honest and very open and said all that.
Once more welcome to Male Survivor brother