I think that an agreement needs to be worked out that when the pain level reaches a certain extent that there would be some simple sign like raising a hand that would signal too much pain.
I absolutely agree - having a "safe" signal is very important. I have one for my T. It makes me feel much safer to know that I can stop it any time I want...
can't - I'm sorry you have to experience this temporary set-back, but I think your T should be applauded for recognising that he is in over his head, and for deciding to get help rather than screw it up for you.
I guess what I'm trying to say
Is whose life is it anyway because livin'
Living is the best revenge
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