You know,

It strikes me how one of the biggest consequence of my abuse was that I was taught about being sexual WITHOUT being in a mutual heartfelt relationship. Sex without caring does not affirm me or sustain me- but deepens my isolation and undermines my self concept and ability to have rewarding relationships.
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We have to take responsibility for what we're not responsible for.

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It matters where you go" Frank Turner