I believe it is called "Father Hunger".
I believe it could possibly be a good thing. (general mentorship). I also see a positive dynamic with adult same sex attraction.
I also see it as a very negative thing, if this attraction is used as an abuse of power. (especially in cases involving children).
In my eyes, it absolutely depends upon the situation. (and the absolute clarity of that situation). I have posts, dedicated to both sides of this coin. (My story part 1 and my surrogate story.
But of course, that is my truth and "your" experience may vary significantly. (to infinity and beyond).
My dad was a rager, no doubt.
House of Pain (Faster Pussycat)
Rise above the storm and you will find the sunshine ~ M.F. Fernandez