I have raged and discussed the CSA I experienced at summer camp at age 13, but I also dealt with exploitation at age 11 at the hands of a neighbor. This was a friend's stepdad who apparently got off on watching semi-nude/naked boys box and wrestle each other. He was a real sadistic bastard with control issues.
I don't want to trigger anyone, but this guy was totally different than the second perp who used fake kindness to earn my trust and put me in debt to him for the "kind acts" he did for me. The first perp was just plain mean and twisted. On "paper" the second incident is worse, but the first perp was capable of real violence. Any thoughts?
I think this is a valid observation.