As for "getting over it".... I *was* over it. For 26 years it seriously never bothered me and I had a good life. 2012 ruined everything. Fucking Mayans.
Yep, I was also "over it". I was happy for many years. And then my life just started falling apart. My wife died, then I had to get major surgery (which turned out to be a bigger trigger than I expected) then a new relationship with all the stress that brings... yeah. I'm not longer sure that "over it" even exists

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I guess what I'm trying to say
Is whose life is it anyway because livin'
Living is the best revenge
You can play
-- Def Leppard
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