I'm certainly not judging my bf for anything but who he is. He's a wonderful person, otherwise I wouldn't be with him. He deserves me and I'm awesome!
He is fortunate, then.
Can I ask you about how to deal with him not "being ready" to deal with it? Do I give him time and space, or do I address it? Keep in mind that he didn't exactly choose to give me the information. I practically stole it from him.
I honestly don't know how to answer this. Getting help, or even just breaking the silence and disclosing what happened, is a huge step. Me, I had no choice in the matter - my initial treatment was court-ordered. I'm sure if you post a new thread asking this question, others on here will be able to offer advice...
I guess what I'm trying to say
Is whose life is it anyway because livin'
Living is the best revenge
You can play
-- Def LeppardMy Story
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