Thanks guys

I guess this just felt like more of the same. My older brother (16 at the time) was abusing me at the same time and it felt like it was all connected. Like these older boys all wanted to us me for sex. It reinforced the idea that this is what boys do together and made the rest of it 'ok'. I would say that the difference in age/maturity between 6 and 10 is big enough to be an issue. I don't know. I'll have to think about it a bit more. It is obviously a grey issue.

more comments welcome
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