The link you provided doesn't work for me. But yeah. The response I got was Oh my God. I would never have thought. But I really can't help you with this. Hell, I wasn't asking for help, just explaining what the hell was going on, more as a courtesy (I don't want to explain). The second individual I told was a more supportive though even though I won't take advantage of it. This was a work situation and things had degraded to a point where I felt I had to disclose or I would be gone shortly. Nothing to do with the military.

Thinking about it in my case, it was worth it. While it has permanantly change my relationship at work at least I'm still there and likely would not have been otherwise.