You can expect a community of men who understand what you've been through, and what you're feeling and experiencing. You can expect not to be judged, and to find out that you're not alone. You can expect both pain, and relief. Take your time, look around, read posts, and when you're ready post something of your own. Good luck.
"In the burning Heart, Just about to burst
There's a quest for answers, An unquenchable thirst
In the darkest night, Rising like a spire
In the burning heart, The unmistakable fire"Survivor