Welcome JD,

You can expect a community of men who understand what you've been through, and what you're feeling and experiencing. You can expect not to be judged, and to find out that you're not alone. You can expect both pain, and relief. Take your time, look around, read posts, and when you're ready post something of your own. Good luck.

Seems I've got to have a change of scene
Every night I have the strangest dreams
Imprisoned by the way it could have been
Left here on my own or so it seems
I've got to leave before I start to scream
Joe Cocker