Frustrating, for sure.

See how she handles it and see what happened, and then consider seeing someone else. Unless there was a significant issue why she missed the appointment, then you need to find someone you can trust.

If you're in NYC, I know a good one to recommend.

If you need to talk to someone right now, you can PM me and I can talk on the phone from now until about 5:30 today. I'm not a T, but I can listen.

Recovery is possible. Hang in there, brothers.