Ok! Thank you!! I am seeing a therapist this week mainly for myself and my own life issues, however, this therapist is a male survivor that specializes in sexual abuse victims... I am hoping he may also be able to give me some guidance on how to get my BF to open up more. The discouraging thing is that he told me just yesterday that he really does not think he will ever "deal" with it.. he truly believes he is "fine" frown
I am curious if there are many survivors that face their abusers on a regular basis.... I am sure that my BF has Stockholm's towards his brother, he just wants to protect him and believes that he is the only victim of his brothers....
One last thing... this is a big one that is greatly weighing on me... His brother (that raped my BF for a year when he was a teen) is a father of two small boys and also a Boy Scout Leader!! What do I do with all of this information that no one else knows?!?! DO I need to DO anything? HELP please....

BTW... What does CSA stand for?