Jay -

We haven't spoken before but I saw your post and thought I'd respond. I assume you've really benefited from any/all books you've read - the above posts list fantastic recommendations. If you're interested in seeing what someone might go through in therapy, I wrote a book that chronicles my walk through 1.5 yrs of therapy for 7 yrs of CSA. I wrote it because I couldn't find a book that told me about what it was like - as I contemplated therapy for months and months. It's not difficult to read - and I've found that some people really benefit from my journey. 1in6.org would be happy to send you one for free (as Pero said). It's called "Nice To Meet Me".

My best to you.

Chris Carlton