I'm right where you are. This forum will help but definitely look for a T asap. It took a lot for him to tell you and that is a huge step.

BF and I aren't married and right now I feel like all of his turmoil is some black whole that is draining the life out of him. I want so badly to help, but all I can do is be there when he ready. Same goes for you. You love him and while you educate yourself it will help you heal along the way. Please feel free to PM me, you are not in this alone...

((((HUGS)))
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Everything rides on hope now, everything rides on faith some how, when the world has broken me down YOUR love sets me free....
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