So my H and I. Have been in therapy for a little over a month. He still has not disclosed details of his csa but it talking about how hurt he feels inside and that he feels like a failure. The last couple weeks he has quit going to the gym as often and has a hard time eating or focusing in school. He also has no interest in sex this is strange because a month ago he was asking me for more sex. I keep asking him what's going on but he just keeps saying that he is tired. Some days he seems relaxed and happy and others he is angry and withdrawn. Is this normal for someone who just started to leak out some emotion after years of shoving it down? Is it normal for an H in recovery to suddenly not want to have sex?
Keep calm and carry on!