Safety is an illusion, well part of one. Sure humans love to thing the world is a safe, bright, happy place and, that people are basically good. Go ahead, that's what most do, it's safer, easier, nicer that way.

Might not be reality but hey, the reality of just how dark, depraved and cruel people and the world can be probably isn't what you want to live with anyway. CSA, I wish that were the worst of it but, there are a lot worse things people do to worry about.

You either accept the pretty facade and enjoy your nice suburban life or, you accept the truth of how dark humanity can be and, you learn ways to deal with it, be that self defense, living in an isolated home, limiting trips to town, whatever it takes to be at least semi-safe.