Hey dales-- I know how you feel-- I just started posting here a couple days ago but I've been really impressed and almost shocked at how helpful everyone here really is and the attention that's shown. Take your time, share only what you wish to share and read some of the resources here at your leisure.

While it's a shame you or any other person HAS to be here, we all share a common goal of finding a way to move beyond our past and improve our lives. Feel free to come into the chat at any point too-- very nice individuals there.
--Jw