Sounds like you are already taking great strides toward healing.
Keep up the good work, but don't rush too quick. Healing takes time.
I Didn't fail to notice you saying you sent what you wrote to your abuser and now it's "hers" to deal with.
I too was abused by an female. She was my sister's older friend. She would have been around 13 or 14 when I was 8 or so and she abused me.
There's quite a few here who were abused by females. It's far more common than people want to admit.
Take it one day at a time.