sorry, Rachel.

you have to find what works for both of you.

glad that you are at least getting some help yourself!

hope that works well for you. maybe your therappist can give you some other ideas.

Lee
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"That you are here - that life exists, and identity; that the powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse. . . What will your verse be?" Robin Williams as John Keating in "Dead Poets Society"