sorry, Rachel.

you have to find what works for both of you.

glad that you are at least getting some help yourself!

hope that works well for you. maybe your therappist can give you some other ideas.

"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself... And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second's encounter with God and with eternity." - Paulo Coelho