Hey James,
good to see you here after some time.
I hope some survivors would help you with advices on HIV.
There is section of board where are discussed things related to HIV, maybe you've seen it already but anyway here is the link:
http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=62&page=1
please think to post there some question if you'll have it...
Hang on buddy, I'll have you in my prayers.

Pero
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