Welcome Bruce. Take your time and find your voice. We all have much in common here, but every road is a little different. Let your healing begin.

Gary
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"When I was a child
I caught a fleeting glimpse
Out of the corner of my eye
I turned to look but it was gone
I cannot put my finger on it now
The child is grown, the dream is gone
And I have become comfortably numb."
Pink Floyd