That sucks to hear. Living in smaller areas does impact access to resources like that, and it is usually up to the sufferer to build the network of support they need to have in the first place.
If there isn't an Alanon meeting in your area, maybe you could start one? Find the local Alanon / AA office for your area, and they can provide support to build such a network. Lots of resources online to assist you as well. People do it all the time.
Best of luck,
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