Magellan,
None of us are worthy...We were given the gift of forgiveness when Jesus died on the cross...Then we were deemed worthy...I mean just think , He thought so much of you and I that He came and walked amoung us and then died for us... I have forgiven my perps too...I think that in order to be forgiven totally that we must forgive totally..
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Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her