You can try to muddle the argument all you want, but

Dictionary definition of judgment:
1
a : a formal utterance of an authoritative opinion
b : an opinion so pronounced

You're NOT the authority of moral values. Just because you believe so, doesn't make it so.

Telling someone they're "sinning" *is* a judgment. You're parsing words and attempting to obscure.

I am no longer a christian, I left the religion because of how arrogant and judgmental most people are in it.

Can you find a way to provide support, love, and compassion without reminding them that *you* think they're a sinner? Can you?

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