I here where your coming from but my Husband had the choice to use a condom between them. The other guy used it a few times and said "I USE PROTECTION" then my husband told him "you dont need that" and the guy asked hm if he was "clean" Husband told him yes and they stopped using them. My husband told me he liked not using it because he wanted the whole experience and got turned on by orgasm in him. I still find it hard to believe it was not a "conscious choice because in my mind it was.
Edited by tina (09/01/12 11:31 AM)