Oh, and to get back on topic, the point I was trying to make in my first post was that DESPITE all this progress in the gender equality area, where men taking care of children are widely applauded as are women doing traditionally manly stuff, it still seems completely incomprehensible to the public that women can be perpetrators of sexual abuse. That's what bugs me. After all this development towards equality, the notion that women can't commit sexual crimes is still so accepted. I don't understand why. It causes damage to victims of female abuse, both sexes, and it sure makes it more difficult to reach the abusive women with treatment.