Hooray Alden! I celebrate your disclosure and the work you have done to demand answers. I am confident you will find the "you" interrupted. I know you will find the strength to rebuild.
We welcome you and your supporter here to heal. Good news about the rest, fellow survivor.
Have you posted in the Sexual Identity Issues forum
? This forum supports SSA and OSA issues, as the forum description states
It might be about confused feelings of sexuality (am I straight, bi, gay?), or sexual behaviors that are confusing.