I'm doing a little personal research and I was wondering.
1; How did your partner tell you of his CSA?
We had been married for maybe 2 months, it finally came out after sexless nights and his freak outs.
2; Did you suspect there was something wrong?
Yes, I knew I was just waiting for him to tell me.
3; Did he immediately start a program of recovery?
No, it was prob a good 3 years before he got into therapy, and another year for him to really realize this wasn't working, he wasn't happy with his life or past taking over.
These are a few questions running around in my head, so If you would let me know I would be eternally grateful.
Heal well all