Boundaries, check.
Limits, check.
Feeling good about this, check.

Husband's resentment building. Check.

I can feel it. It's building. He's annoyed that I won't be manipulated. That I won't do it for him. That I won't give more than I want to. Oh baby, I can feel it coming. Little moments when it slips out.

How do marriages work through this?

I am not going to give in. I am not asking for anything extreme. I am asking for honesty and respect and accountability.

But I have to protect myself because he will blow, it is just a matter of time. Any advice from those who felt resentment when their supporters first started standing up for themselves?