Hi Jeremy and welcome to Male survivor!
Take some time and explore this site, there are a lot of resources offered to survivors which are very helpful.
If you have made payment for membership just wait it is obviously pending (it seems that procedure is a little bit slower during weekends). After someone from MS stuff approve it you'll become full member and part of board for members will be shown at the bottom of forum list.
Keep sharing with us!
Pero
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