I am also saddened someone from MS would make an evil post such as "want pity" No, I think just common decency.
I hope you make it through to disability!! or Universal Health Care.
Is there any way to be added to an employed friend's insuranc as an SO?
Or if you could somehow afford it; travel to another country for your much needed surgery.
What about going to a hospital in a state in USA that cannot by law refuse to treat and just get admitted and tough s**t once you're admiited. I think California must treat.
I care and I wish I knew of some way I could help.