Sexual abuse damages sexuality and intimacy.
It is an unwelcome intrusion upon the most person, innermost, and intimate part of us.
Confusion is the other part of being sexually abused. Confusion about what true love and intimacy is and how to express caring and love without it starting sexually.
The “Kinsey Scale,” was developed by Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues Wardell Pomeroy and Clyde Martin in 1948, in order to account for research findings that showed people did not fit into neat and exclusive heterosexual or homosexual categories.
Interviewing people about their sexual histories, the Kinsey team found that, for many people, sexual behavior, thoughts and feelings towards the same or opposite sex was not always consistent across time. Though the majority of men and women reported being exclusively heterosexual, and a percentage reported exclusively homosexual behavior and attractions, many individuals disclosed behaviors or thoughts somewhere in between.
I think you love who you love when you love them.