1. He was in therapy for his sex addiction. Slowly his abuse leaked out. His memories are leaking out still. They just keep getting worse. I wonder how much he can take, how much I can take.
2. No I didn't suspect he was abused. We have been together for 15 years and I recently caught him cheating, but never thought he was abused.
3. Has been very open to therapy. I am amazed at how hard he is working.