1; How did your partner tell you of his CSA?

He disclosed shortly after one of his "episodes". I had no idea what was happening at the time.

2; Did you suspect there was something wrong?

Not prior to that first episode. But after educating myself on CSA, yes, all of his behaviors and acting out made sense.

3; Did he immediately start a program of recovery?

No. And after attempting about a year or so later and never returning, things just weren't going to work out.