1; How did your partner tell you of his CSA?
He was freaking out one night over watching a news piece about abusive priests and I just screamed at him (I had just had enough at this point) "what the f*ck is your problem" until he finally told me.
2; Did you suspect there was something wrong?
Yes. Years into our relationship though. He was different before we had kids.
3; Did he immediately start a program of recovery?
No. That came a few months later after a suicide attempt had him laid up in the hospital for a while. well....actually he tried some therapy beforehand but she didn't know what she was doing.