Remember after such things happen to us concerning abuse, we have who we really are inside. The hard part is seperating what happened with who we are.
I am so sorry u were hurt, it is never easy to get over.
Not sure what the answer is comet but I am here if you ever need to talk. I have been hurt as a child and then as an adult.
thanks for your comments and reaching out to us in this forum
it is the start of healing learning to deal with feelings and
Standing together is so much better than hiding in the dark.
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