Shaun, regarding that, I read somewhere in here that in Ken Singer's "Evicting the Perpetrator" addresses this a lot. I remember it being stated he has posted a lot of it here at MS. I'll contact Ken myself, but if you guys have any links, I'd appreciate them. Thank you.

I'll be fair and share what I find.

EDIT: I PM'd Ken, and he replied he didn't post much about the book while writing it. He didn't have memory of things I'd thought he'd written, so I was misinformed about this. Sorry