I'm not here to be corrected. It is my heart that needs healing. For that to happen, my heart must feel safe. My heart does not feel safer just because words have been written. Just because something is written somewhere, it doesn't make it so. I'm here to express the pain of my experience. There are still plenty of people who say "God" has taken away their pain so they don't need therapy, then go on to inflict misery on the hearts of othere. I also believe that 3 therapy sessions is not going to cure the results of profound trauma. There are still people acting on pain from their histories and passing this pain on to others, then justifying it. The church isn't the only entity that needs a call to accountability for the harm done to children.