I have just begun the "Healing" or survival training process. I saw a counselor yesterday and have made the commitment to myself to do this. I never told a soul for 10 years then I supressed it best I could once again. 6 years later which brings us to present day (the sexual abuse stopped 16 years ago). I am just now getting around to dealing with this, I am going to take what is left of me and repair myself the best I can. I am so greatful to have found this site, and plan to be an active participant. Any suggestions or comments are will be appreciated. Thank you for your comments also you all.