Mike:

You're starting this thread, the length of it, the many opinions & insights it generated, the way it's getting all worked out--this is what sharing & support on a recovery forum is all about!

And Mike, you are what a survivor is all about!

Wuame

PS I suspect we'll see a lot more posting on this & similar subjects.

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