Is it totally pathetic for a guy to use a dating website like Match.com or eHarmony.com to meet someone? Has anyone used sites like that to meet someone? What's your experience?

I'd like some feedback. I'm sort of a solitary person, but I've been wanting to get out and try dating again but since I've been solitary for so long I don't really know anyone or don't know really where to meet people. *shrug*

Just been sort of lonely lately and feeling ready to put myself out there.

Thanks. \:\)

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