Hey Sean - I'm glad you found that article. I was about to say the same thing here. We teach kids - GoodTouch/Bad Touch and it covers that buttocks area. What a confusing message we send?!
Especially when we tell kids no one can touch your private areas then pull their pants down to spank them in the "No Touch" area. We lose all focus on what consequences are to accomplish.
If you think you can or you can't - you're right!.......anon
It's never too late to have a happy childhood!.....anon
You're very normal for the abnormal situation you've been through..............S. Todd