i'm a little confused. my abuse started at age 14. i am now 20, i care about style and fashion very much, i make sure i look nice, i even reverted to frosting my tips(my hair). suddenly i'm getting comments from my family and friends about being gay . is looking nice a problem? i don't think so, but everyone seems to make it into one. not many of my friends and none of my family know about my sa, so i kinda just deal with it and act as if i don't care, and sometimes it even hurts, but i don't know what else to do. any suggestions? i don't wanna not look good, but i hate that a straight guy can't look good without being gay. it bothers me. but what is there to do without completely dropping my personality?!