Keeping my standards low to try and keep everyone's expectations of me low? I don't know what you're talking about... Oh wait, I think you hit the nail square on the head!

John, what you say makes a LOT of sense too. You may be on to something that I had not yet considered. Keep the bar low so that "when" it is lost the pain does not overwhelm. Very insightful indeed. Thanks for that.

Craig

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Craig

Guilt and shame have never done any of us any good at all.