This is an isue that has been haunting me for many years.

Scriptures quoted about Onan refer to the old testament. I see myself as a person living by grace and not under the law any longer.

I agree with what was said above. When M what do you think about? Do you lust after the neighbour's wife or whoever. To me then it becomes sin. Then it is wrong.

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Not Perfect, just forgiven