... bh ... i've talked to a lot of survivors who say they've had anger problems and intimacy problems and all that while married but didn't realize it was from their csa ... it seems pretty common ... almost as common as a survivor doing the opposite and feeling everything is their fault ...

it doesn't sound like your husband believes he is part of the problem in your relationship ...

... also, you may want to consider setting some boundaries for his behavior ... regardless of the cause, whether it's from csa or something else, it's simply not ok for him to use you as his emotional punching bag ...

be well
selene

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