Im not sure how to ask this , but here it goes is there anyone who has ever chatted with another guy about having sex with the guy you are chatting with. knowing You dont want to have sex with him but,you think you have a need to feel like your in charge of a sexual situation, so time and time again you chat making different guys think you want them to have sex with you. using this as way to get back at your brother for sexaully abusing you when you were a child and you think this is a way of trying to regain some sort of control or power over events in your life